Likewise [I desire] that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control,... but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works (1 Timothy 2:9-10).
We as girls want to dress in a way that pleases God. In a way that does not cause others around us to sin.
Men are very visual; the way we dress truly does affect them. As their sisters in Christ, we should respect their feelings when it comes to how we adorn our bodies.
I want to encourage others around me to grow in their faith, I cannot control other people's actions, but I can control mine.
I want the way I dress to honor God and the men in my life. Even if it means that the really cute, super fashionable, short dress I love stays at the store. I want my guy friends to feel comfortable being around me. I don't want them to feel the need to look everywhere in the room but at me while we talk.
If a simple action like dressing modestly can help encourage others in their pursuit of Jesus, I want to do it. We know that men are visual, and can be tempted with the way that we dress. I want to create an environment that is conducive to the furthering of the gospel and not to the temptations of the world.
The way we dress says something to the world and the people around us. If we are dressing like we want attention, thats what we will get, but it won't always be from the right kind of people. Guys notice when well dressed (and covered) women enter the room.
Making good and simple choices in the way that we dress can be an easy solution. Ask your dad or older brother how they feel about the way that you are dressed. Ask them honestly if your outfit is in any way immodest to them. If it is, ask them how to make it modest. God has provided us with our dad as a safe person to ask these questions. It may be frustrating or embarrassing if they do not approve of your outfit, but it is much better to have them tell you than to expose yourself to those who do not have your best interests in mind.
Written by Emily and Kathryn
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