Fear. Insecurity. Anger. Stress. All of these are factors that can
lead to self harm. Self harm can be done in many ways including
verbally and by using objects to inflict wounds on the body.
People can try to hide their fear, anger, and pain in many ways.
Instead of talking to someone who is trusted, people choose to inflict
pain on themselves. The thought behind it is that it dulls the
emotional pain, and gives people something to concentrate on. The pain
might feel good for a while, but then people are left with scars, and
the emotional pain is still there - in fact it often is worsened. Self
harm is serious and should not be taken lightly, AT ALL!
Self harmers are some of the best “hiders” in the world. They can try
to internalize every little thing. When asked what's wrong, "Nothing"
or "I am fine", are common answers. Self harmers usually try to make it
look like a common injury that could easily have been an accident. We,
as believers, need to be observant if signs arise. We want to help
people before it is too late.
Many self
harmers finally reach a point when they have to tell someone. Or
someone finds out. The relief is great, but it is hard to promise to
never do it again.
Thankfully, we serve a
loving and powerful God. With him, all things are possible. Even
Christians can give into self harm at times. It is like a disease that
you have to fight.There can also be a deep fear that people will look
at you differently when they find out what you have done to yourself.
God loves us, and he is the only place where we can find true healing
and comfort. Until we find him, we are desperate.
Once we are in God, we need to believe in him, He is faithful and
forgives. In Christ, we are still going to face temptation, but not one
that we are unable to face. Written by Kathryn and Emily
“No
temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God
is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear.
But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you
can endure it.” 1 Corinthians 10:13
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